Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Thomas Paton with the following comment:
The deceased is my relative, born in my home town in Northern Ireland, and I'm trying to track down information. I believe this is the correct grave. Due to family issues at the time, contact was lost and Annie died before I could say goodbye. I tried to track down information from public record some years back but was unsuccessful. I can't believe I may now start to get some answers and visit to pay my last respects to a wonderful lady. I only met Tam (Thomas) once. Thank you for providing this service, this is going to mean so much to me.